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>Starting The New Year Right

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We’re excited about starting off the new year with a men’s breakfast at Community Bible Church. We’re excited about our speaker and we hope you will join us!
Please save the date of Saturday morning, September 26th. More details for follow shortly.
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>Twitter Milestone!

>We have over 50 followers on Twitter!

Please show your support by following us at www.Twitter.com/NYMensMinistry.
Thanks!!
Image courtesy of Luc Latulippe (http://tinyurl.com/da2v4p)
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>Purpose Driven Ministry

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Participated in Rick Warren’s request for tweets with our life purpose. The one we submitted was selected re-tweeted and republished, with multiple others,on the Purpose Driven website’s blog. Check it out here: Purpose Driven Connection

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>Praying for Eliana

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Many of you know that our daughter Emily, went ahead of us to heaven 5 years ago. She had a very rare genetic disorder called CACT. She had the most extreme form of the disorder with almost no measurable amount of the enzyme that breaks down fatty acids. Primarily with a special diet and a lot of prayer, she lived 20 months longer than any of the other children diagnosed before her. Advancing medical science in the process.
Eliana is a child that Carolyn just became aware of that also has been diagnosed with CACT. Quite coincidentally Eliana is nearly exactly the age now that Emily was 5 years ago. I don’t know how much of the enzyme Eliana has or the treatment that is being used. I’m sure medical advancements have occurred since Emily. I do know that Brian and Joy trust in the Lord and that has been all the difference in the world.
I encourage you to pray for them and visit their Facebook group. I also wanted to share a letter from Brian that was posted on their facebook group. Thank you.
From Brian’s email….

Dear Prayer Warriors,

Thanks again for all of your intercession on behalf of our family especially Eliana. One of the greatest truth the God has shown me since we Eliana was born is that He is looking for weak humble people who need him to do the miraculous. God has miraculous brought Eliana out of the clutches of death and restored her vitality and life. I spent a while this morning simply thanking God for Eliana. Oh the things God has shown me through her life. I had several doctors and nurses stop in to see the “miracle baby”. Over these last few months. She has been hospitalized 7 out of the last 8 weeks. Praise God she is home. Eliana has lost some of her developmental progress over the last few months. She is not babbling or trying to talk right now. She is not able to stand for any real length of time. She is simply special. Pray that she will gain these skills back and acquire new ones as well.

When we are at our weakest God is at His strongest. I believe this. Not that God gains strength, but I see Him dispense His strength more freely and powerfully. We have had more people come forward for membership. A couple of Sundays ago, while I was at my weakest, God showed off his everlasting strong arms once again. I had only had a couple hours of sleep as I was up late in the hospital with Eliana and rose early for Sunday services. I was tired to the point my stomach was sick. As I taught Sunday School I was having trouble keeping thoughts together. The class participants where gracious. As I went into the morning service i found a few minutes to just pray and ask God for help. I was preaching on Christ centered worship. I repeatedly asked the congregation to consider why they come to church. Several answers where given. I challenged them, that every time that we come to church we must come to see Jesus. There was a special spirit that day. At the end of the service a man approached me. I knew him from many years ago. He had never been to our church before. He is a tall strong military man. He began to confess that he started living for himself during his time in the army. He told me that he did not want to come to our church, but his sister (whose husband came to Christ at our church last fall) had been pestering him to come to our church. He kept saying I don’t need religion I am fine. Well today he came to church to keep civility in the family. This strong military man in front of God and everyone began to weep. through his tears he chocked out a few words. “I saw Jesus today, I saw Jesus today and I gave Him my heart back”. God did that. God’s powerful strong arms broke the heart of a strong man. There are days that I wonder why this has all happened. Then God sends me a man like this to show me that there are people here that need Jesus just as much as they do in New Zealand. My friends, don’t give up. Serve God. We cannot always choose which field we want to work, but we can always choose if we are going to work in the field. Mission is not a place, it’s a people.

Thanks for all of your love and support,
Brian Denmsore

Please visit the Facebook for those that are praying for Eliana at: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=19029742114
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>You’re men ain’t ya?

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Saw portions of the movie Open Range again Today. I love the fact that the two main characters (Played by Kevin Costner and Robert Duvall) understand that sometimes a man has to just step up and do what’s “right”, no matter what the consequences.
I hope and pray I’m listening to God enough and courageous enough to do the same.
Sound clips from the movie, these two occur right after each other:
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>Job Description

>Men wanted for the difficult task of helping build God’s church. You will often be misunderstood even by those closest to you. You will face constant attacks from an invisible enemy. You might not see the results of your labor, and your full reward will not come until after your work is completed. It might cost you your home. It might cost you your ambitions. It might cost you your life.

Requirements

  • Must rely on God to be their holiness (righteousness)
  • Needs to be humble and contrite of heart
  • Must need, desire and accept the salvation grace that comes through the redemptive death of the Lord Jesus Christ.
  • Experience earnestly praying and repenting from their mischievous and selfish ways.
  • Loves the Lord God with all their heart, with all their soul, with all their strength and with all their mind.
  • Loves their neighbor as themselves.
  • A person of noble motives, who earnestly desires the Lord above all things.
  • Flees the evil desires of youth, and pursues righteousness, faith, love and peace.

Other Characteristics

  • Many years of experience attempting to run their own life, assumed.
  • A sinner saved by grace through faith in Christ.
  • Imperfect and broken but looks forward to Jesus’ return with much hope.

Benefits

  • Walking, talking and working alongside the best boss ever.
  • Meaning, Joy, and Peace
  • Eternal Life

All applicants are strongly encouraged to apply. Positions outnumber applicants by a wide margin.


Even if you don’t meet these requirements – there is grace. “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” Romans 5:8


Description Courtesy of
Michael Youssef, PH.D
Leading the Way Ministries
http://tinyurl.com/m7pp5d


Requirements and other characteristics, humbly compiled by WMM. We would gladly accept your feedback on this description but we would prefer to have your help with the job. Please comment or e-mail TerenceFinn@yahoo.com

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Men’s Ministry Golf Outing

Tentative Date: July 17th

So you think you can’t golf…well you haven’t seen anything yet.
Come have fun with a great group of guys. All are welcome!
Let us know if you are interested by commenting below or e-mail TerenceFinn@yahoo.com. Thanks!
(image courtesy of: http://www.homegameroom.com)

https://nymensministry.com/2009/07/03/32/

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>Pictures from Last Week’s Hike

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A number of us went for a walk on the Croton Aquaduct Trail last weekend. Here are a few pictures.
Please note the sun/shade mix was on purpose, you can’t look at this group directly and live! 🙂
Seriously it was a great time and we were glad that George didn’t beat any of us with his large stick. Thankfully we all stayed in line.
Hope to see you soon!
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Temptation of Christ

Luke 4:1-13    (Matthew 4:1-11)

http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=49&chapter=4&version=31

Notes

Mathew Henry’s Commentary on Matthew 4:1-11 (similar to Luke 4:1-13)

Concerning Christ’s temptation, observe,

I. The time when it happened: Immediately after the heavens were opened to him, and the Spirit descended on him, and he was declared to be the Son of God, and the Saviour of the world, the next news we hear of him is, he is tempted; for then he is best able to grapple with the temptation.

Note, 1. Great privileges, and special tokens of divine favour, will not secure us from being tempted.

Nay, 2. After great honours put upon us, we must expect something that is humbling; as Paul has a messenger of Satan sent to buffer him, after he had been in the third heavens.

3. God usually prepares his people for temptation before he calls them to it; he gives strength according to the day, and, before a sharp trial, gives more than ordinary comfort.

4. The assurance of our sonship is the best preparative for temptation. If the good Spirit witness to our adoption, that will furnish us with an answer to all the suggestions of the evil spirit, designed either to debauch or disquiet us.

After we have been admitted into the communion of God, we must expect to be set upon by Satan. The enriched soul must double its guard. When thou has eaten and art full, then beware. …

http://www.ccel.org/ccel/henry/mhc5.Matt.v.html

Deutronomy 8:3

“He humbled you, causing you to hunger and then feeding you with manna, which neither you nor your fathers had known, to teach you that man does not live on bread alone but on every word that comes from the mouth of the Lord.”

 

Jesus’ point is that physical needs must be met God’s way, not our own selfish, short-cut way. We’re tempted, of course, to steal, to cheat, to fornicate, to lie, to provide a quick fix for our physical hungers. God is able to supply our needs, but we must wait on him and seek to do things his way. Just because we CAN work miracles doesn’t mean we should in any given circumstance. Bread — physical fulfillment — is not more important than God’s Word and way. (http://www.jesuswalk.com/lessons/4_1-13.htm)

Three temptations

  1. The lust of the flesh – the temptation of hunger
  2. The lust of the eyes – the temptation of power and wealth
  3. The pride of life – the temptation of instant acclaim

The same temptations we face but Jesus, although tempted, did not sin.  This scripture highlights his flawless character.

Questions

  1. When did this event take place in Jesus’ life?  What preceded it?
  2. How was Jesus tempted?  How did he respond?
  3. Why was Jesus susceptible to temptation?

“God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone” – James 1:13

“But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men” – Philippians 2:7

  1. Why was he tempted?
  2. How are we tempted in ways that fall into these 3 categories?
  3. How are we able to respond like Jesus did?

(Prayer, Fasting, God’s Word)   Ephesians 6:11-18

https://nymensministry.com/2009/02/08/17/

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>Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
Bible Study – The Wound

“In the heart of everyman is the desperate desire for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.”

The Question that Haunts Every Man

“The tragedy of life is what dies in a man while he lives.” – Albert Schweitzer

The question that haunts every man: do we have what it takes? Am I powerful? (Important, valued, meaningful)

  • Without a great battle in which a man can live and die, the fierce part of his nature goes underground and sort of simmers there in a sullen anger that seems to have no reason.…
  • every man’s deepest fear: to be exposed, to be found out, to be discovered as an imposter, and not really a man. “I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid” – Adam, Genesis 3:10

The Wound
Do I have what it takes? Am I a man?

  • Masculinity is bestowed by father (In the Bible: blessing, name)
  • Even Jesus needed to hear words of affirmation from his father.

    “You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased.” Luke 3:22

  • Femininity can not bestow masculinity but can emasculate (over protection, names, etc.)
  • Father must actively intervene; mother must let go.
  • Father needs to engage; if not, we end up with a father wound
  • Every man has a wound because every father is a son of Adam (Your father wasn’t Jesus)
  • Not necessarily one day (subtle messages over time)
  • Wounds causes a lie
  • The lie leads to a vow which leads to a false self
    (Father never affirms; Vow: I will get his affirmation; False self: overdriven, perfectionist)
  • False self is usually either violent (driven) or passive (retreat man) or both

Bible Verse
Genesis 27:1-41 Jacob and Esau (emphasizing below verses)

  • Verse 34: When Esau heard his father’s words, he burst out with a loud and bitter cry and said to his father, “Bless me—me too, my father!”
  • Verse 36: …”Haven’t you reserved any blessing for me?”
  • Verse 38: Esau said to his father, “Do you have only one blessing, my father? Bless me too, my father!” Then Esau wept aloud.
  • Verse 41: Esau held a grudge against Jacob because of the blessing his father had given him. He said to himself, “The days of mourning for my father are near; then I will kill my brother Jacob.”

Study Questions
Review

  1. Describe Esau? Describe Jacob?
  2. What is the difference between the two blessings?
  3. Why was the blessing so important to Esau? Is your father’s approval important to you?
  4. How did these events impact Esau negatively? How did they impact Jacob negatively? (further reading)
  5. How has your father’s blessing (encouragement, pride) impacted you? What experience with your father stands out?
  6. How do you think you have you impacted your son(s) lives?

    Next Week: Continue discussion with question #6 and relevant Bible Study
    Next Topic: The solution to the father wound. Hint: Galatians 4:4-7

https://nymensministry.com/2009/01/10/12/